It appears most of the relationships we find ourselves nowadays only end up creating a lasting hatred to one partner or even both. According to a radio station discussion, one lady, who helped her male friend to further his education to become a medical doctor has broken her heart and she seeks public advice on what to do. She reveals that they had been childhood friends as they were growing up in the same neighborhood.
Attending the same basic school and being in the same class, the guy was very bright academically. However, his family was not well to do. They could hardly afford three square meals a day. Though I was not intelligent in class because I did not like school, my family was better. So occasionally, I had to support him financially before he could pay some of his fees.
Then on one unfortunate day, both my parents left me in my mother's tomato shop and went for a funeral at my matrilineal home. After waiting and expecting them for some time, I was sadly informed that their lorry had an accident, and to my shock, most of the passengers lost their lives including my parents.
So being the only child of my parents, I had no choice than to take over my mother's tomato business and manage it so that I could earn a living. And God being so good, my business was booming but it is just that I could not continue with the school again. And all this while, that my friend had been with me.
So when I was around 18 and he was 19, we decided that we would come together as husband and wife after he completes from the medical school. Even though I could not afford the full fees for his tuition, I could get him half of his fees and then some other things for his upkeep. I did this for six years before he graduated and now he is a professional doctor working in a big hospital. But my problem is that, he rarely speaks to me lately.
His relationship with me is not what we had before. But there was this day I visited him to find out why he suddenly changed towards me and you can't believe the words that came out of his mouth. After I have lost my virginity to him and used my mother's tomato business to help him through out his medical school, this is what he said " honestly babe, I have been thinking of something but I don't know how to tell you". So I said he should tell me what he has. Then he said " I know we have been together for a long time but why don't we end it and move on ? " I could not believe my ears and up till now, I have not given him an answer.
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