My name is Matilda Asare from Twedie in the Ashanti region of Ghana. I am 28 years old and I am a trained journalist by profession. I was born and raised in Twedie in the Atwima Kwanwoma district in the Ashanti Region. I am currently living in Kumasi-Kwadaso because of my job. I’m a married woman with two children.
Recently I have encountered marriage issues with my husband and as a caring and loving woman, I think a lot about my family and the future of my children. Due to this reason, I decided to seek advice from our pastor at where I fellowship but because of security reasons, I won’t drop his name and the church I fellowship.
But this is what happened that I want Ghanaians to know and also seek your guidance. The issue I had with my was that for the past three (3) months my husband has decided not to touch me, do any romance with me, and not even to talk about “sex”. I am a human being who have feelings, not like non-living things. And I also need to feel like a woman. This issue is worrying me and I don't know why my husband is avoiding me in bed.
After I told my pastor about the problem he came close to me he started touching me, fondling me in the counselling room. I was not comfortable but I couldn’t avoid him because I also fell for it. We did it and now I always go to him whenever I need it since my husband doesn’t want to do it with me.
Now my husband has got to find out I am having an affair with the pastor and I don’t know what to do either I should tell him the truth or not, or stop seeing the pastor. That is why am here for your help.
Thank you for reading, please I need your comment on what I should do now and the reason my husband is avoiding me in bed.
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