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10 Things You Seriously Need To Stop Doing Inorder To Be Happy

Who doesn't aspire to be happy every day ? To achieve this, you must of course accumulate tips and learn about yourself. But also, you have to "undergo self examination" as they say, by questioning yourself about the actions that you sometimes take without thinking and which can be very toxic. Here are 10 things we all do at one level or another that hold us back. The trick is to gradually stop these behaviors and finally let them go. It will do you the greatest good, you will see.

1. Self criticism

We can be our best friend and our worst enemy at the same time. Why not stick with the first option?

2. Criticize others

Instead, try to notice the good sides of the people you meet. It will take you far! Note that gossip is also to be avoided.

3. Accumulate

Purify your decor and your cupboards by avoiding occupying space unnecessarily. For example, you could start by cleaning up your cosmetics.

4. Procrastination

Make realistic lists and meet deadlines. All tasks that can be done in 2 minutes or less should be done immediately.

5. Complain

There is absolutely nothing to be gained by complaining on a daily basis. Take the test to see: for one day, choose to be grateful for what you have, what surrounds you and what is available to you, even the smallest details. No whining.

6. Find excuses

We can't control everything that happens to us, but we can always choose how we react and bounce back. It's all a matter of perspective.

7. Holding Grudges

Forgiving, as much to oneself as to others, is an essential key to living happiness every day. It's not always easy, but you can do it. To help you, do not hesitate to visualize the following after a good relaxation session: imagine that the person you are angry with is in front of you and let a channel of light coming from your heart reach his. A daily exercise that can make all the difference!

8. Compare yourself

Each person is simply unique. I love the quote that says, "You could be the juiciest peach in the world and there's still someone who doesn't like peaches."

9. Lying

Even little white lies can be toxic. Choose to tell the truth at all times and people will respect you for your honesty. Remember it's all in the way you say it.

10. Living in the past

What if you move forward instead of backward? All that matters is the present moment and your ability to move forward. Focus on your dreams and goals, on who you are and who you want to become. Of course, it's impossible to change everything at once, overnight. Instead, pick one or two aspects you want to work on before moving on to the next ones. And be indulgent.

And you, what will you have to stop doing to be happier on a daily basis? What would you add to this list?

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