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How To Ask A Girl To Be Your Girlfriend If You Are In Your 30s

Dating in your 30s can be tricky, especially if you haven’t been on a date in a while. worry no more, The dating scene is easy to navigate. If you’re ready to take the next step, here are a few tips and suggestions to help you along the way.

Be direct and ask in person.

The easiest way to ask her out is to just ask! A new relationship can be hard to navigate, especially if you haven’t made things official. Don’t worry—asking her directly is the easiest, most direct way to get a clear answer. Just let her know how much you like her, and that you’d like to be with her. You might say something like, “I’m really loving the time we’ve spent together. Would you like to be my girlfriend?”


Show your vulnerable side.

Let her know how you really feel. It can be a little scary to open yourself up to someone if you're not sure how they feel. However, if you're going to get into a relationship, it's important to show her how much you care. Talk to her about how you'd like the relationship to progress, and let her make her decision based on that. For example, you might say, "I really care about you, and I'd love for us to take our relationship further."


Use mature language.

Skip over the high school or college jargon. If you really want a serious relationship, back yourself up with some serious language. Phrases Iike “let’s kick it” or “let’s chill” don’t offer a lot of maturity, and don’t make you seem very serious. Instead, talk to her in a sincere and genuine way. “I’d love for you to be my girlfriend” is much more mature than something like “Let’s make this legit.”


Tell her you don't want to see other people.

Make things exclusive if you've been on a few dates already. You might be dating casually, but that doesn't mean she's your girlfriend yet. If you want to take things to the next level, tell her you aren't interested in seeing anyone else, and you want to know if she'll agree to only date you. Say something like, "I really enjoy spending time with you and I'd love to see where this goes. I'm not dating anyone else, and I don't want to. Are you seeing anyone other than me?" If you met online, you could say, "I deleted my dating profile. Do you still have yours up?"


Tell her your friends are getting curious.

Use this as an indirect way to find out how she feels. If you're feeling a little shy, try framing the conversation in terms of how other people see you. Let her know that other people have noticed how much time you're spending together, but that you wanted to check with her before you said anything. For instance, you might say, "After lunch, Jay asked me if you were my girlfriend, but we haven't had that conversation yet so I didn't know what to say. I kind of liked the sound of it, though."


Take her on a date and ask her out.

Pick a place where it’s easy to have a conversation. Keep it flexible, grabbing lunch or coffee is a great place to start. If she isn’t a fan of your original suggestion, feel free to compromise and go with whatever she suggests. Spending time together on a date is a great time to ask her to be your girlfriend. “Want to grab coffee this weekend?” or “Are you free for lunch tomorrow?” are simple but effective ways to invite her on a date. Plan a date where you’ll be able to talk openly and freely. If you’re catching a movie together, you won’t get much time to talk.


Stay relaxed even if she says no.

Rejection is a normal part of life, regardless of your age. There are plenty of reasons a girl might say no. she might not feel the same way, or the timing might not be right. Still, try not to take it too personally. Instead, stay cool, mature, and polite, and thank her for being upfront about her feelings.

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