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7 Reasons You Never Had a Girlfriend & Never Will Until You Fix Yourself

There are obvious signs why some guys will never get a girlfriend too. Some may act like they don't care or don't even want a girlfriend. But the truth is that many guys who haven't been lucky enough to score an awesome gal think that there's something wrong with them. While we can’t pinpoint the exact reason you’ve never had a girlfriend, we can certainly come up with a few reasons as to why something is off.

Generally, these are the factors that may be inhibiting your girlfriend-catching skills 

1. You talk about how you haven't gotten a girlfriend 

If you tell a girl that you've never had a girlfriend, she will immediately begin wondering what is wrong with you. The second a girl hears that her mind starts spinning, and it's a turn-off. Just don't go around telling cute girls this unless you're trying to evade their interest.

2. lack of confidence

You need the confidence to even ask a girl out in the first place. By telling a girl you've never had a girlfriend, they can tell right away that you've already lost confidence in your ability to get one. So pluck up the courage and try!

3. You know nothing about women.

Knowing what women like can help you catch a girl and keep her. Read about women, or listen when your female friends speak.

4. You're not a boyfriend material 

If she starts complaining or talking about another guy, don't respond. Tell her that he's being an idiot and that you would never treat a girl that way. Women may not see you as a boyfriend because you don't make yourself seem like one. A woman's imagination can also be her best friend!

5. You're too picky 

There are so many amazing women out there that you're blind to, just because she might like oatmeal and you think it looks like vomit. Broaden your horizons, dude! There are so many amazing girls out there for you to find.

6. You can't read signs 

Laughing a lot around you is a sign she's interested. You can also ask some close girlfriends how you can tell if a girl has an interest in you.

7. You blame women 

They're all crazy. They're all just crazy. Women are not the problem—particularly if you're the one who hasn't had a girlfriend, but they have had boyfriends before. If you start blaming women for your inability to pick up a girl, you will harbor resentment toward them.

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