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Ghanaian Ladies Aren't Boring During Conversations But Guys Always Bring Football And Betting Issues

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By Yolokiz | self meida writer
Published 11 days ago - 91 views

According to the Frequently asked questions, Ghanaian women are boring and terrible at maintaining a conversation. However, critical analysis and survey reveal that the problem stems from the men's camp, given the topics of discussion – primarily football and betting.

Perhaps it is in response to this that Vanessa Bless Nordzi has taken to Facebook to clarify the situation and dispel myths about why most males believe Ghanaian females are uninteresting when they go on a date or any kind of tour with a man.

There is a cliché going on that Ghanaian women are boring and are terrible at keeping a conversation going. Funny enough, I see a lot of men agreeing with it and it makes me wonder if they truly understand the species called “women”.


When it comes to dealing with women, one peculiar thing men have refused to comprehend is that women are naturally curious. Women have the best special ability, which makes it easier for them to grab a cheating partner without having to hack into his phone. It's a blessing.


However, if a lady doesn’t like you, that gift of “inquisitiveness” will not be utilized for the simple fact that she isn't interested in getting to know you.


How do you keep a conversation going when you have nothing in common with even your fellow man? Assume you enjoy discussing sports, the stock exchange, bets, and women, while your MALE friend is only interested in neurotics, archaeology, and astrology. How do you approach such a person?

It is easier to assume that the person is boring and can’t hold a conversation when you have forgotten the simple fact that you have absolutely nothing in common!


1. Now with this ideology, when you meet a lady for the first time, there are some things you should take into consideration.

If she starts talking to you, it doesn’t mean she automatically likes you. She is probably trying to find out common interests to see if you both have similar ideologies, beliefs, interests, etc. The conversation will last longer if you have at least 40% of things in common.


2. The fact that you instantly liked her and want to talk to her doesn’t mean she feels the same. She is likely to turn you down politely or harshly depending on her personality. But most men don’t like to be turned down so they rather push further until the lady becomes harsh and he goes about saying she is rude.


3. If you keep asking a lady how her day was, if she has eaten every single day without bringing up any other topic, the conversation will go one way. If she likes you, she'll want to learn more about you and ask you personal questions.

4. There is no such thing as a boring lady. There are some rather dull questions.

How do you think the conversation will go if you're chatting with a lady and she's talking about the weather and you have no knowledge or interest in the weather? Such a girl could easily be labeled as boring, which she is not. Simply put, you're asking the wrong questions.

Finally, keep in mind that some people are good at conversing while others are more of a "Question - and - answer" type of person; in either case, you just go with the flow. It's all part of the cycle of life. Don't waste your time forcing the conversation; she doesn't like you!

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