Sometimes we are so engrossed at the early stages of our relationships that we turn blind eyes and deaf ears to important nuggets of information and 'alerts' us about our newfound 'angel'. However, these are the very things that will help us know what we are in for and what to expect.
When you are in a relationship, take note of the things your beloved talk about as his or her likes and dislikes apart from the character and attitude which must equally be under your lens. Remember, one man’s meat is another man’s poison. You have your individual differences, therefore, you don’t have to trivialize the likes and dislikes of your beloved. Instead, you must use them as a guide to determine the next level of your relationship.
The good thing is, these likes and dislikes you discover in your beloved are some of the signposts and traffic lights that will guide your relationships’ journey to know which action to take at which point. Therefore, the onus is on you to make good use of these snippets of your beloved lineament to make an informed decision. In fact, they are the determinants of whether you will comfortably live with him or her, or you may have to accommodate him or her for the rest of your life, or otherwise obey the red light rule and end the relationship.
Moreover, the bitter truth is, the probability that your beloved will change to suit the perfect specs of your idle spouse is not high. Sometimes people can pretend they have changed over a period of time when they are pressured to do so, but true change is a personal decision, and it happens cooperatively and gradual. That is why now-and-again I say, “if you can’t handle it, don’t settle with It”.
You may be wondering, is it possible to have a good relationship that will triumph into a blissful marriage for me? Yes, it is. Generally, it is not a bad idea to look out for certain qualities in a would-be spouse. But you must endeavour to develop a good measure of the same qualities as well, it makes it easier for the two of you to get along well in the relationship.
A good relationship is the foundation of a good marriage. If you can’t work it now, it will be difficult for you to work the marriage. Try working it out and decide accordingly.
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