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10 Signs He Wants To Be In A Relationship Rather Than A Fling

Are you looking for signs he wants a relationship and not a fling? Then we got you covered. Here are 10 signs he's serious about a relationship, so you don't try to ruin it.

1. You don't have to do any chasing.

Men who are ready to settle down and find a serious girlfriend don't want to wait around. Emotionally stable men, the ones who make good long-term partners, are very goal-oriented. When there's something they have their eyes on, they go and get it. So there is no need for you to chase after.

2. He introduced you to his circle of friends.

Men who aren't afraid to incorporate you into other aspects of their lives and also want to be in a long-term relationship with you are the ones seeking for relationship.

3. He informs you of everything.

If he talks about his past relationships, his hardships, his struggles, and other personal details about his life, he can be the right man. High-quality men who are emotionally stable and good at being vulnerable will not just throw on a Netflix show and chat about what kind of pizza you want, he's probably not interested in something long-term.

4. He's OK with losing some independence.

Men who are ready to be part of a couple are OK with losing a bit of freedom. A single man is allowed to do anything he wants. A man in a committed relationship must realize that someone else has an opinion on the things he does—and he must be OK with this.

5.He doesn't cancel plans.

Men who are serious are not flaky. They make a plan and they stick to it. If, for some reason, he has to cancel a date, he has a good reason for it (work or an emergency) and he apologizes immediately. If you've got a man that just cancels whenever he changes his mind, check the red flag again.

6. He contacts you in between dates

If you have a date set up with your man and he still make contact with you before the due date, boom, he's in the long.

7. He 's OK with labels.

Serious men don't mind being tagged with labels such as backpad, boyfriend, etc.They enjoy the responsibility and proud to introduce you as his girlfriend and tell others that he's in a relationship. This is one of the most important signs that he wants a relationship and not a fling.

8. He talks about long-term future plans.

The Dating Expert says that men who are interested in long-term relationships should talk about it early on. This could be generally mentioning marriage, sharing a house, or even wanting children. Even asking about vacation plans that are in the near future is a good sign.

9. He says he loves you.

He may want to keep things low-key in the beginning so he doesn't seem like an over-eager creeper. Head over heels in love, couples can be so nauseating but you do find 'I love you' in his sentences.

10. He moves the relationship forward.

A man who is serious about a relationship might start spending quality time with you in any kind of function where his co-workers/boss are present or seeing you in a more casual kind of way.

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