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As you read this article you will learn how to be behave like a proper and well refined lady.
Being a woman does not automatically make one a lady.Around the world,the definition of a lady differs from one community to another. Manners,attitude, appropriate dress and social mores defines a lady. A lady by today's definition knows that educating herself in every way possible,from higher education to the common sense manners,empowers her to become a woman of accomplishment and poise. As a lady it's good to be beautiful and wealthy, but your inner character is the measure by which others will ultimately judge you as a person.A lady is simply a well mannered female,being thought of as a "lady" may be one of the highest compliments a woman can receive in life. Below are ten(10) ways to be lady.👌
1.ALWAYS SAY "PLEASE" AND "THANK YOU".
As a lady,when making a request or you want something,you should be able to use the word "PLEASE" .Also when the request is granted you say THANK YOU.Say thank you anytime someone does a favor for you,however big or small.Always thank people for making it to your wedding,birthday party or any other event.When you are also given gifts say thank you.This is to show appreciation and to give the impression that you are polite and well mannered.However don't abuse these words,using them excessively make you appear weaker.
2.MAINTAIN YOUR PERSONAL HYGIENE
Personal hygiene keeps you looking and smelling your best and more importantly it prevents infection and unpleasant scent from building up on or in the body. This could be done by brushing your teeth morning,evening or in between meals. This can further enhance the appearance of the teeth.Take a shower daily,use deodorant and shave pubic hairs often to prevent the trapping of sweat .
3.HAVE A GOOD POSTURE
Sitting and standing up straight are signs of a true lady. Learn how to sit upright not only in the office but also in your home.Don't leave your legs wide open especially when wearing a short dress or skirt.This upgrades you and helps you avoid waist or back aches as well. It will take some training to get used to this , especially if you are accustomed to slouching.
Try to have a good sense of dressing (fashion).When attending an occasion,know the appropriate dressing for that particular occasion.A lady should look charming and flossy in her dress.Dress according to your age and body type,if you are let's say in your 60's don't dress like a 20 year old girl and vice versa. A fat person shouldn't also wear dresses meant for slims girls,this give too much exposure to the body. A lady doesn't show off too much body in a dress.
5.BE RESPECTFUL TOWARDS OTHERS
Being a lady isn't just about looking all good and attractive,it has to show in your character and the way you relate with others around you. When talking to someone,give him or her your undivided attention,this makes the conversation more involving and interesting for both parties. Don't speaking rude words even though you are so irritated by someone,a lady doesn't speak anyhow, anywhere or anytime. Also as a way of being respectful,give a helping hand to those who need it especially the elderly.
A lady is eloquent ,this requires being well educated and staying up to date on current issues in the world. It doesn't necessarily require formal education,if you are not enrolled in a school,there are many alternative ways to educate yourself. You can read plenty of books,read news, attend seminars,look up for new words in the dictionary and get involved in discussions as well. Thanks to the internet,there are many topics and articles you can learn on.
7)A LADY SHOULD HAVE PROPER TABLE ETIQUETTES.
A lady waits until everybody's meal has arrived before she starts to eat. She doesn't also speak with food in your mouth, it's inappropriate and can actually ruin someone's appetite.Avoid burping, smacking your lips or fidgeting at the table.When coughing or sneezing at the table,be sure to cover your mouth with a napkin.
8)A LADY NEVER CORRECTS SOMEONE ELSE'S GRAMMAR IN PUBLIC.
A lady should know better not to correct someone's language in public although they are wrong. Someone being corrected in public especially by lady is very disgraceful,uneasy and odd. This could be done privately instead.
9)A LADY EXCUSES HERSELF WHEN SHE IS IN A PUBLIC PLACE AND NEEDS TO MAKE A CALL
When a lady is public especially in a group or at dinner with others,she does well to excuse herself so as to not spoil the moment or cause any distraction. Bad news received in public can change the mood of others which is not very helpful.
10. A LADY DOESN'T GOSSIP.
If you are a habitual gossip,others will eventually loose trust in you as friend.If something doesn't concern you, don't talk about it.Not only does it show bad manners but it destroys friendships and damages professional relationship. Ladies think before you speak.
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