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Husband and wife relationship

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When people get to the age of marriage, many wonder who to marry and they go through a whole lot is stress making a choice of wife or husband.

This was the story of one christian woman.

Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

There’s this young lady I would like to call Dora. She was a dedicated and fervent 

Christian who met a brother in the church and, within a short while, got married to him because she promised herself to marry a man from same faith.

Two months after their wedding, she discovered, through the attitude of her husband towards her and the things of God, that this supposedly Christian husband wasn’t born again as she thought. 

It was just a pretense he used to get her attention; by this time, she was already deeply in love.

Marriage is a serious business that must not be taken casually.

As a single woman or man, you don’t just see a brother or a sister and agree to get married, without ascertaining their spiritual, physical, emotional and financial stand.

You must be sure he or she is who you think he is before you say “yes” to any proposal or propose to her. 

You must understand that it is not about a man or woman being in church and serving in a unit, but how well he or she loves and give reverence to God.

One easy way to ascertain this is to be highly spiritual. If you are spiritually sensitive, you will not fall prey to any deceit, because the Holy Spirit will reveal it to you beforehand. 

You cannot afford to truncate your destiny in order to follow the “trend of marriage” because all your mates are getting married. People don't always tell their marital stories.

More so, your marital journey is so long that you cannot afford to spend it in total regret and tears.

So, aside other parameters you use to judge whether or not a person is right for you, let spirituality be your watchword and it will save you a whole lot of stress in the future.

Finally, if you must choose a spouse choose well because if it must be done, it must be done well.

God bless you.

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