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Seven Vital Things To Do To Make A Girl Look Your Way More Often

Most guys want to impress a girl, but tend to go at it from all the wrong angles. Instead of impressing her, they end up turning her off. Although not all girls are the same, and look for different things in guys, there are a few tips that you can use to get a girl to look your way more often.

Impress her with your personality. Having a great personality and being easy to relate to is an important part of getting a girl to like you. Let's face it: Girls look for different things in guys than guys look for in girls. So let the great parts of your personality shine through to her, and work on fixing the parts of your personality that you don't like.

Be funny. Girls love funny guys. If you can make a girl laugh, then you have a good shot at making her fall in love with you. Practice jokes on your friends (guy-friends and girl-friends, because there's a difference of what they find funny) and keep the jokes that work and throw away the jokes that don't. Be playful. Studies have found that girls are attracted to guys who are playful. Being playful is attractive because it shows youthfulness and the ability to have fun. So find your inner child, throw away all the ideas about what you think you should and shouldn't do, and play around, especially when you're with her.

Have great conversations with her. You don't have to talk about books or high culture or any of that stuff. All it takes is getting an opportunity to talk with her and running with it. Once you have that chance to talk to her, ask her good questions, and listen to what she says. Questions you can ask her are: "Where did you grow up?" "What do you want to do when you grow up?" "What do your parents do for a living?" "Do you have any brothers or sisters?" or "Have you traveled anywhere interesting," to name a few. Find a way to compliment her. Don't compliment her all the time, because it will become obvious that you're really into her. But try to give her at least one nice compliment. If it's done in the right way, it's guaranteed that she'll remember the compliment, and remember you as well.

Make sure you are clean and put together. Girls, for the most part, like guys who are clean, smell good, and aren't constantly sweating. Guys, for the most part, don't care about these things as much. So, listen up, guys: If you want to impress a girl, you're going to have to pay attention to how clean you are. Shower every day. Make sure you hop in the shower or take a bath every day. If you play sports after school, you may want to shower in the nighttime, after you come home from practice. Shampoo your hair every other day. If you're smelling clean and natural, girls will be more comfortable coming close to you and even hugging you.

Wear nice clothes. Not just around her, but also when you leave the house. If your clothes have a bunch of holes in them, or are dirty, or don't really fit you, chances are she's going to notice a bad way. If you can, impress her with the clothes you wear. If you can't afford new clothes, don't worry: if you have a great personality and you're really sweet to her, this step won't matter. Be consistent. If you're going for a certain look, be consistent about it. It's not wrong to wear really preppy clothes one day and punk clothes the next, but it's jarring, and you're sending mixed messages. Stick to one style and own it.

Start talking with her and being around her. In order for this special girl to be impressed by you, she has to notice you. Your connection with her doesn't have to happen right away, so don't do anything really dramatic like fight someone just to get her attention. It will probably take some time for her to get really comfortable around you, so put your head down and don't get sad if you don't see immediate results.

Make eye contact with her. Eye contact is really important. Don't look away while talking to her, because it shows that you're not confident. Look into her eyes at the right moment and keep them there for a little while. Don't be afraid to show her that she makes you want to look at her. If you find her looking at you in class, try not to be the one who looks away first. Stick up for her. If she's getting teased by another girl, or she happens to be in a fight, come to her side. Even if it's just another person badmouthing her while she's not there, stick up for her. When she sees that you're there to stick up for her, or when she hears that you've defended her, her heart will go out to you. Don't make her guess whether you're on her side; show her you're on her side.

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