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5 sure signs of an impending divorce

Marriage is an honorable thing and the bed undefiled. Marriage is a sweet thing especially when you meet the right partner in life. Whereas some people are testifying to the joy and peace they are experiencing in their marriage, others are also complaining about the difficulties they are experiencing in the relationships. Here are 5 signs of an impending divorce or breakup

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1. YOU ALWAYS SETTLE ISSUES WITH ARGUMENTS

Arguments are unavoidable in every relationship. But as an old Akan adage goes, "there's no misunderstandings between two or more people that can be resolved with a knife or cutlass". Whenever there is a misunderstanding between a couple, you both ought to resolve the issues amicably amongst yourselves. But when you can't settle issues without argument or insult, then you are heading for "destruction" in the marriage.

2.YOUR FIGHT OR ARGUMENT INVOLVES FAMILY

As indicated earlier, arguments and misunderstandings are inevitable in every marriage. No matter how much you love each other, issues are likely to crop up that cause you two to argue. Since you both came from different families, have different upbringing and different ideologies you might not be agreeing easily on common issues. But once your arguments involves insults which extends to your partner's family members especially their mother or father, then your marriage is likely heading for divorce

3. YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO APOLOGISE TO YOUR SPOUSE

The story is told of a young man who sought marital advise from his dad before marriage. As a test, his dad simply asked him to apologise for nothing he's done wrong. After apologising to his dad, he dad simply said "you're now ready to marry". In marriage you'd surely offend each other, but having the will power to apologise whether right or wrong is what makes the marriage grow. When both of you constantly refuse to accept and apologise for the wrong you did, then the marriage is in danger of divorce

4. HAVING AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIRS WITH SOME ONE ELSE

"For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother to be joined together with his wife, and the two shall become one flesh". Marriage is a union between two people, not three or two and half, the half being the extra marital affair. If one or in some cases both of the partners start having extra marital affairs without showing any remorse for the affairs, then the marriage might be in shambles.

5. WHEN YOUR GOALS DOESN'T INCLUDE YOUR PARTNER OR SPOUSE

Everybody has personal goals in life. We enter into marriage with set goals. Once you get married, you have to involve your spouse in your goals. But when you stop involving your spouse or never involve them in you set goals then the marriage might not be lasting any longer. To resolve this, start planning your future with your partner in mind.

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