Most ladies do not know why some gentle men promised them love and even this ladies were so secured that this guys are really in love with then therefore can even boast of the love of such men but later get disappointed by those men.

Some of those men are really not bad as thought of them but your own behaviour or behaviors can be the the main motive for those disappointments. This is not to say that those ladies posses bad or wrong attitudes but if you attitude is not corresponding to his inner character ,it doesn't matter how good or bad it is.

 Some men are visionaries. They see things far ahead and are ever ready to achieved them through hard work.  These types of men needs ladies who can share their visions and would allow them to be their leader.

They are focused and determined so they want ladies that will achieved their dreams with them.

You will really be happy if you demonstrated a good sense of understanding .         

 They are dreamers and every dreamer needs to be focused and discipline. If you are a dreamer then you are a leader. Every man is supposed to be a carrier of a vision but unfortunately it's not all men that have vision so if you happened to meet one, you must be able to know how to handle them.To be a leader is to be disciplined. There is no leader without discipline. Every leader needs followers so every man full of visions is in a high expectations that his girlfriend or wife or beloved is supposed to be his first follower. Discipline is not interesting as compared to the result that will be achieved, therefore anybody close to a disciplined man must be willing to take certain orders without any explanation. Any lady around such kind of man must be obedient. If you are not obedient enough to take certain orders without demanding for explanation then he would not be sure that you will not cause instability. Every man needs and desires to be stable in order to be able to reach his destination. 

To be obedient simply means to comply with instructions from those in authority.This means the woman must reference her man as her authority. Men have the notion that "if you are not recognized by your girlfriend or your wife as a head then she will not respect you". If you want your man to cherish you then be ready to take instructions from him without thorough explanations,the explanations will come later.Just be patient. He can only tell you his reasons if he is aware you are obedient enough to comply to his commands without too many questions. The true identity of a man is in his secrecy of reasons of mental and emotional discipline. His sense of direction is what motivates him to act in a certain way. The most important thing in the life of any serious man is his dreams because that is what drives him.Anything that contradicts his sense of direction is an obstacle to him. A friend of a man with a vision is the one that believes in his dreams. The one that will never stand on his path of direction. So he will take you as his best friend if you are not an obstacle crossing the path leading to his destination. That really means he will like to go far beyond the" memories of the sky"and I can give an assurance that he will not leave you to drop as a fruit of mango.

The best friend of a man is the holder of his secrets for his reasons. So his secrets of actions are yours and you will forever be the best of the lady among billions other ladies. Allow him to give orders even if you are not in the favour of those instructions.Do not complain but rather make your ideas sound like suggestions. Obeying the command of a man is not a sign of weakness,it's rather a sign of wisdom. Do not be deceived that ladies are weaker vessels so matured men also see them as weaker vessels,its only immature men that may think like that. Matured men are rather in high morale of sensitivity to the fact that women are powerful creatures without any physical weapons. Many men are controlled by their ladies or their wife's if only those ladies are wise enough to know how to get the attention of their men. The amount of suggestions,a man can accept from you is proportional to the amount of attention that man has devoted to you and before a man will surrender to your suggestions then you must be able to gain his trust. Gaining his trust is to simply to make him to rely on you or have confidence in your ideas.Past experiences with you are what will make him to rely on you. If you do not object to his suggestions or ideas in the past will help you because since you demonstrate a behavior that depicts reliance on his ideas. To men, if u can rely on them,you are reliable.

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