1. WEARY THEM DOWN
This is called Besiegement.
A lady i once counseled told me plainly, "i only gave in because I was tired of him asking, day and night, it was causing problems, it began to look as if I was wicked, he was always begging"
It's simple, just like the widow wearied the Judge down with her constant requests in the Bible, guys also use this method.
If he keeps asking, and you don't remove yourself from that relationship, you'll one day give in out of "make í rest"
2. Put Fear in Them.
"you'll lose me"
"I'll leave you"
"no one else can love you like I do"
"you're just being wicked/stingy"
He slowly makes the lady feel she's about to lose a multimillion dollar deal.. And sex becomes like a little sacrifice to make to keep what she has.
3. Take her to a High.. Then leave her hanging.
He'll call, text, spend money, be so romantic, caring, lovely, taking her on epic dates, the lady is sure she's finally found true love....
Then he stops calling, starts withdrawing, forming busy.
The lady is scared, confused, wondering what she has done wrong, she's missing his attention and affection that she's now used to.
Then he drops his "Request" or his "Problem".
He tells her, all the love he's been showing her, he wants something in return.
Aunty misses all the care, she wants his attention back.. You know the rest
4. Guilt Tripping
"there are many ladies out there willing to give it to me, I still chose you"
"you said it yourself, you're not even a Virgin, so what are you keeping?"
"Help me quench my desire, so i don't cheat on you" making the lady feel responsible to keep him from cheating. As if that is true.
5. Reassure Them.
"Nothing will happen, we'll use a Condom"
"I'll put only the tip"
"I'm going to marry you, i swear to God"
This works especially for ladies whose reason for wanting abstinence isn't the fear of God but the fear of Pregnancy.
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