Mistakes are common and inevitable in any relationship. Once you've made a mistake, the best thing to do is admit it to your wife and correct it. Here are five hurdles that can help you admit your mistakes to your wife.
1. Be wise in managing your time.
While there is never a perfect time to break bad news to someone, there are times that are better than others. When breaking bad news and confessions, it's important to keep your wife's personality and support in mind. Try not to admit when one of you feels a strong emotion such as sadness, anger, or fear.
2. Take full responsibility for your actions.
When he's ready to hear your confession, be prepared to face the consequences without apologies or accusations. Because it's hard to show genuine remorse when you refuse to take responsibility for your actions. Do not try to justify your actions or reduce the harm or grief you have caused them by defending yourself. He needs to hear the rain in your words.
3. Validate your actions, not every detail of your actions.
In this case, you have to be careful. You have to be honest about everything if you want to confess, but you don't have to explain everything to your wife. In fact, you don't have to tell your wife everything she needs to know. I'm not saying you have to lie, I'm just explaining. If you're not careful, you might tell him more than he should know, which can definitely prevent his healing. For example, if you're addicted, it's okay to tell him about it, but telling him about mature women, whom you prefer to see naked, isn't necessary.
4. Answer your wife's questions about your actions correctly and honestly.
I said earlier that you should be honest about everything and not tell your wife everything. However, once you confess, never hide or withhold anything from your wife again.
5. Make your full confession.
Don't just sign up for what you did wrong. Tell your wife about anything that has hurt your actions and how you have affected them. Remember that while your confession can help you feel better, it can also affect your wife and other people. So before you leave the confessional, always start the healing process by asking your wife what she needs right now. Then reassure him that you will do whatever it takes to earn his trust and make amends.
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