Dealing with a cheating boyfriend can be one of the most infuriating things ever. He betrayed your trust and you may be so angry you could scream. But hold off a sec. There may be a better way to get back at him. To help you do it, we’ve put together a list of tips and strategies you can use to make your cheating boyfriend feel bad for what he did.
Method 1 Act like you don’t care when you find out.
Your indifference could actually hurt his feelings. Cheaters can oftentimes be really narcissistic and your boyfriend may expect you to blow up when you find out about his infidelity. Stay calm and composed while you plot your next move.
You also don’t want him to be able make you look bad when people find out about his cheating.
If you catch him in the act, don’t get aggressive. Just grab your stuff and go without saying a word.
Method 2 Give him the cold shoulder.
It could make him try to convince you that he’s sorry. If you’re willing to forgive your boyfriend, let him know that it’s not going to be easy. Make him live in the doghouse and avoid talking to or spending time around him until he manages to earn back your trust and respect, however long that is. If he’s really committed to fixing things, then he’ll do whatever it takes.
Every situation is different, and you shouldn’t feel pressured to do anything that you don’t want to do. If you feel like you want to give your boyfriend another chance, you can absolutely do that.
Method 3 Let him know that he hurt you
Make him feel guilty for what he did. Speak up about how much your boyfriend’s cheating has affected you. Be direct and honest and tell him that you cared about him and what he’s done has ruined your relationship. He may really regret his actions.
For instance, you could say, “I can’t believe you did this. I’m devastated. I really loved you.”
You could also try, “How could you do this to me? To us?”
Method 4 Leave him for good.
Break up with him as soon as you find out. If you’re done with him, be done with it! Keep it simple and direct. Just tell him that it’s over and walk away from the relationship. It may kill him to know that he’s lost you.
Make him understand the consequences of his actions.
You could say, “We’re through. I don’t want to be with you anymore.
Method 5 Give him his stuff back in a box.
Place it on his doorstep without saying a word. You likely have some of your boyfriend’s things at your place, so gather them all together in a box. Leave them on his doorstep so he’ll find it. The fact that you just want him out of your life without even talking to him will definitely feel hurtful.
If he has some of your stuff, you can send him a text asking him to put it all in a box and leave it at your door as well.
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