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I prayed and fasted for him to leave his girlfriend and come for me

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Even when all my relationships with the people I thought loved me didn’t go down well, I still held on to that belief that true love will find me someday. I have always been a firm believer in the word LOVE. Perfect love exists so I kept my faith higher even after several breakups. I always say this to my self “I only have to keep going no matter what and in the end, that kind of love will be my reward.”

Right after my national service, I made a friend from church, Fidelix. To date, I can't even remember how we became friends. Usually, you will remember who approached or who said hello first but with me and Fidelix it is like we woke up one day and we were friends. He will come to my house every Sunday and pick me for the church. At that point in my life, I had no job doing so my days were sometimes boring.

When Fidelix came along and got to know little about me, he started to make sure that I had something to fill my day with. He would come along with more movies and series si I get something to be occupied with on the days I am not looking for a job. I grew fond of him. For trying and being there always. I didn’t know his ultimate intentions towards me but I loved his presence and the part he was playing in my life.

I got into a relationship with Joe, a guy who captured my heart and later turned out to be everything I hate to see in a man. He was very possessive and also at best childish. Whenever I missed his calls, he would start acting up. If he needed me at a time and I was not able to honor him, he will go like “Never mind I will call my ex to come around”. To me, that was silly and inconsiderate for a man you love to be doing that. I finally got tired of his behaviors and utterances so I ended the relationship and moved on even though I was much into him I couldn’t continue with such stress,

I found Mike, dated for some months and that too did not work and then Cristian came with all the lines that would get a woman swept off her feet. I thought he was the one. I felt for him deeply but he was the one whose love or lack of love nearly ended my life. Just when I thought I was going to have a beautiful day ahead of me, I came across a wedding photo of a beautiful couple. I looked at the photos well and guess what? The main is suit was Cristian. I believe you know understand why I said” he was the one whose love or lack of love nearly ended my life.”. I would not wish what I went through that period even to my enemy.

I was in pain, in fact, severe pain. Fidelix was still there being that fried he has always been, trying for me and making sure I had happiness, through the little things he did. I saw him as a friend but deep down I wanted a man who could treat me like he does. I made things obvious to him but he didn’t pick the clue. I did not tell him anything about my broken heart

 I brooded alone and tried to heal the pain by myself. It was just around that time I realized Fidelix has given me a distance. I was not hearing from him like I used to. He stopped coming for me to church and I was not seeing him at church too. So I got worried. I called him to ask why I have not been hearing from him “is anything the matter?” and his reply was “ There is nothing wrong. My job schedule changed. These days I go to work even on Sundays that’s why you do not see me”

One day, through a conversation with a mutual friend, I got to know that Fidelix has a new girlfriend and she is the one who has been taking much of his time. Ideally, I should have been happy for him, Happy for a friend who had a girl he loves so much that he does not care about other things now. But rather I felt this sense of jealousy in my gut. I felt like someone has taken what is mine from me. I smiled and moved on. The next time I met him I ask him” How is your new girlfriend ” I was hoping he was going to tell me it was not true but he responded “oh she is doing well” Hmmm my heart so its true. Well, life goes on.

I was not seeing Fidalix as I used to but anytime I met him I surely asked him about his Girlfriend hoping one day he will tell me “Oh things did not work out ” For two and half years, anytime I asked he had something positive to say about his girlfriend. I kept praying and fastening for what belongs to me to come back to me. I never gave up.

After the lockdown, I had a call from Fidelix. He asked if we could hang out and I said why not. we went out that night and it became a routine. He will call me after work and asked if we could hang out and I will say yes. At some point, I asked myself “what has changed? Why is he having time for me all of the sudden? Is it that my prayers have been answered?”

One night I asked him “How is your girlfriend, I hope you guys are having good times together”. He responded “Oh we broke up oo. There was a lot of mistrust issues with her . she always suspected me of cheating on her. Nothing I said would make her reason. Two can not go far unless there is trust. So we called it off.” I said what everyone would say to a friend in such circumstance but deep down I was smiling. The barriers are broken now and once more I have my Fidelix back. My feelings for him had grown bigger in his absence and I was not going to let him off as easily as it happens the other time.

After few months of hanging out, one day on our way home in his car, he said “ I have feelings for you and I think this is the right time to let you know. Now that I am single and you are single too” I responded “Me too, I have had this feeling for you for some time now. I was waiting for you to say this”

We have been together for some months now and I am having the best days of my life. He is just the perfect fit for all that I have ever wanted in a man. He makes my world goes round.

It is early days yet and I do not know where this would lead us. Marriage? I would have loved it if it did but I am also aware that not all relationships lead to marriage no matter how good the two look together. So now all I do is to take one day at a time. If God wills he will make things beautiful in his own time.

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