You like her a lot, you can't help but think about it and don't look at her when you meet her, but the mere thought of talking to her goes into confusion. What can you talk to such a pretty girl about? The fear of making a false step is great, no, better try tomorrow. Then tomorrow comes, but courage, that is not. It is not even shyness, but just not knowing what to talk about. So it's important to know how to talk to girls.
Nobody likes to converse with a person who always and only talks about himself . And this also applies to chatting. Yes, because every person's favorite topic is themselves. Everyone wants to talk about themselves. The reason is obvious: you are at the center of your universe just as the beautiful girl sitting at the next table is at the center of her personal universe, so it is for everyone. But this also means that each person has favorite topics with which they particularly identify and if you touch these topics, the person will open up as if by magic.
But that's not to say that the right recipe for breaking the ice with a girl is to just talk about her. In reality, while it may seem like a good idea at first glance, it is not at all. If you only talk about her, in fact, it seems that you have nothing to talk about in your life, it seems that you have no character and above all you do not have the opportunity to relate to her. These, let's say, are the general rules, but below we give you some more specific tips, with interesting and fun topics for a conversation.
Ask her about her hobbies and tell her about yours. If she spends some of her free time pursuing a hobby, then she will also be willing to talk about it. Maybe she has more than one, but there are sure to be some that she likes the most: well, those are a good place to start. And if you have one or more hobbies in common, even better. This immediately creates a certain bond between you and isn't that the purpose of your chat?
It is not necessary that you cultivate passions in common, because what counts in talking about your passions is to transmit emotions to the other person: but if you have any, then yes, talk about them, it will be another strong "anchor" point for your incipient. bond.
3. Ambitions and career
As with passions, career and ambitions can be a very valid topic of conversation, because obviously charged with emotion. This is one of the best topics to discuss with a girl. In talking about these things a person imagines himself in the future and in general it is a future full of emotions. Make her imagine the future as if it were a story or a film plot.
What music do you like? Do you have favorite bands or artists? Music is often an excellent point of contact. Music that we like usually arouses strong feelings in us: this cannot fail to affect the conversation.
If she too is one of those who feel a chill down her spine when Metro Goldwin Mayer's lion roars, then you have another common ground for conversation. The films are something else that generates strong emotions and so are a safe oral prompt.On the pro side, the most famous movies have generally seen them all, while on the cons you have to take into account the indisputable fact that the films that women like are different from those that men like. If you go crazy for Jason Statham and adrenaline-fueled action movies, maybe it's better not to talk about it.
Women find it irresistible to talk about relationships and social dynamics, men ... a little less, but you try a little and you will see that you will be rewarded. And it can be easier than it sound sometimes you just need to talk about that couple fighting across the room.
7. Stories and experiences
It is likely that both you and her have years and years of stories and experiences behind you, which gives you a boundless amount of things to tell. Of course not everything will be worth telling, but there will certainly be several things that deserve to be said. Another common ground on which to build a bond. A warning: better not tell her embarrassing things
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