To deal with misunderstanding in your relationship is the most important thing when it comes to building a very unique relationship and marriage.
One way or the other we do lose our temper from time to time, and expressing anger is actually a good thing to do in our relationships with people.
But expressing it inappropriately can bring a whole lot of problems in your relationship and marriage.
Inappropriately in the extent that it may be expressed too much and it may affect and destroy a relationship you may have built in so many years.
In this article we will look at ways and means to manage your anger to help you better control your emotion in other to have the best relationship and marriage.
1. Never allow the sun to go down your anger
As a man or a woman in relationship or marriage, make sure to settle every issue you have with your partner before going to sleep.
If not when you wake up, you will still be in that mood and it may raise another form of anger. So the best thing to do to settle every misunderstanding, laugh over it before entering the next day.
2. Never mention that problem again
Most of the time when partners have had their problems and settle it, one will mistakingly talk about it again to refer to something, and issue of this nature can resurrect the old problem again.
So make sure you will never visit an old problem again.
3. Good Timing
If you want to talk about an issue about what brought anger between you and your partner, check the time and the condition in which your partner is.
That is there are times you want to discuss an issue you have with your partner, meanwhile it's the time he is going to work or church. That is not the time to discuss that to piss him or her off.
So check the best timing and use wisdom when talking about it. After all your main reason of talking about it is to bring peace.
4. Slow Down
Whenever you are talking or raising an issue that happened in your relationship, try to slow down.
Never raise your voice higher in issue of this nature or you will end up not solving anything but rather raising another bad issue within the former problem.
Remember you are trying to solve an issue but not to raise up a problem.
5. Learn to say sorry
After whatever kind of discussion that will go on between you and your partner, when you find out you are at fault quickly tell him or her that you are sorry.
When your partner is the one at fault and he says sorry, accept without explaining anything. Just thank him or her for accepting his or her fault and quickly let that case go off your mind.
Just come back in happiness and continue your beautiful life.
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