By sticking to this code, you'll let him see for himself that you're a catch and not worth leaving. This is the difference between girls who are desired and those who are always walked over.
1. Don't misunderstand the art of playing hard to get
The only girls that guys desire and fall for madly are the ones who leave men hanging without any reassurance. If a nice guy has a huge crush on you and follows you everywhere you go, wouldn't you treat him carelessly compared to another guy who flirts with you but doesn't try hard to please you?
2. Don't fall for the test
If you don't like doing something or don't want to do something, stand your ground and he'll respect you more. He may avoid calling you for a couple of days or he may ask for favors just to see how compromising and accommodating you are. Don't fall for it.
3. You're not in love
When you start dating a guy, don't say it out loud just yet. Pretend like you're old-fashioned and wait for him to say he loves you first. If a guy knows you're madly in love with him even before he's fallen for you, he'll always take you for granted.
4. Don't change your life
If you place him on a pedestal and devote all your time to him, he'll treat you with less respect. He didn't have to put in a lot of effort in order to get you. Don't change your life overnight just because you're dating a guy.
5. Don't whine or beg
If he doesn't call you for a couple of days or if he cancels a date, don't sulk or let him know you're upset. If he really is trying to impress you and not just sleep with you, the fact that you seem so unbothered will scare him.
6. The controlling boyfriend
A controlling boyfriend isn't born that way. He's created that way by you and the way you behave around him. Put your foot down and do what you want. Don't stop talking to a guy who's flirting with you or an ex just because he says so.
7. Don’t be predictable.
Don’t let him read you like a book. Block yourself emotionally from him, so you seem harder to read. This will make you harder to impress, which then makes you a lot more desirable and attractive. This is one of the very important girl code rules for dating.
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