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6 Things You Should Never Do When Your Partner Leaves You For Another Person

If your partner has just left you for someone else, before doing anything that you may later regret, read this. First of all, we must keep two things clear in mind: common sense and self love. I know that at this moment the feelings that appear in your head are hatred, revenge, pain. But acting impulsively will not bring you good consequences in the future, what 's more, it may turn the tables and you will be like the bad guy. So I'm going to make you a manual of things you shouldn't do when they leave you for someone else. You will thank me in the future.


1) Forget about social media

A common form of revenge is to post everything that happened on social networks, with the sole purpose of ridiculing the other person and that everyone finds out what a bastard he has been. But what do you get out of it? Air your life and give everyone the opportunity to have an opinion about your attitude and your life? Not worth it. In addition, it can go wrong and people think: "Now we understand why he left with the other one"


2. Do not pay "the other" with evil

She (or he) is not to blame that your partner has misbehaved with you. So don't waste your time making mental schemes of how to sink your life. She is not to blame, she was free. Your partner does not.


3. Don't make scenes in public


Doing this will make you go crazy and we don't want this.You already have enough with what you are going through, to make them think you are crazy.


4. Don't immediately look for a substitute


You will be like a jilted woman looking for someone else to dry her tears. Give yourself time, overcome it, you will even overcome it , you can even find another person who is really worth it, but with peace of mind.


5. Don't cry.


Don't cry, don't beg, no. it is done. He left you for another and the only thing left is to assume it and move on. Nobody dies of love, you were not going to be the exception.


6. Don't talk to your family and friends


First of all, they are YOUR friends and YOUR family, so as a general rule they will position themselves by your side . The only thing you are going to do with this is feel empty and alone. Everything you have to talk about and do with yours. Nothing is eternal, not even this shitty situation. Taking revenge is not going to make you any happier. Behaving like an angry child will not do you any good. Being someone else that you are not is not going to make you stronger or better. Calm down, love yourself and give yourself time. Everything will pass and life will take care of putting everyone in their place.

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