As you know, every relationship has its ups and downs and after 5 years a good relationship is full of lies and broken promises. Infidelity and a lot of bad things in the last two years when I got to this point I realized I had had enough and it was time to leave, I had to forget about the relationship, so when I told him about the idea that I was being with he didn't like it. so we all agreed it didn't stop me from how i started.
When I left the relationship I took about a week off so I wanted to calm myself down a bit about what we were going through in the relationship. discussing how we need single parents because I understand that even though we have argued, the child must be mine and do the right thing. but he immediately silenced me.
So I decided not to be locked up like that, sitting around thinking I should have more for my son to enjoy or not. Realizing that he was a man who hated drama, I went to his office and offered money (R350) to pay for his education. I also promised to send the kid more money over the weekend, I'm surprised he didn't offend me.
In short. After knocking at work the same day, he sent this to me on WhatsApp (read chat below).
As you can see, I tried to take the initiative to raise my son, but he pushed me all 10 steps forward because of the differences between him and me as parents. Was it a specific idea to send the promised graduation money until he changed his mind, or are there other options I could take advantage of?
If you find yourself in this situation, what can you do to help your friend do the same? Please share some of your thoughts in the comments section below.
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