Marriage is a stage in a person's life that requires commitment and responsibility to their partner. Because of this, you shouldn't get married before you know what you want and what kind of person you want to marry.
In order to have a happy and successful marriage, you need to get things right from the start. This means asking the right questions and talking to your partner about important marriage issues.
In this article, we'll talk about five important things you should talk to your partner about before moving forward with your plans to get married. Look at them below.
1. Finances: Before you get married, you and your partner need to sit down and talk about money. Who is expected to handle the money and who is in charge of getting food on the table? Should it be a one-way street or a two-way street? Is it a case of "you eat, so you bring money" where both people are expected to work, or is it mostly the man's job and the woman's income is seen as a supplement? There is no right answer, and there is no perfect way to be. It's good to share the same ideas and work as a power couple or a team. Is the rent going to be split? Will you open a bank account for both of you? Don't argue with your partner about his or her beliefs; instead, listen carefully to see what this means for you if you get married to that person.
2.Being a parent: Does your partner want children at all? Also, it's a good idea to think about a life with kids and see if your partner dreams of family life with joy or talks about it as a burden or something to avoid.
3. Contribution to feelings: Try to understand this. If only one person is making the marriage work by planning vacations, planning moments, saying nice things, looking out for the other person, cheering them up, buying gifts (how much you spend doesn't matter, it's the thought that counts), getting excited about holidays, and making the whole thing worth it, then there could be a problem. Will the other person bring something to the table, too, or not? Please find out if the other person is just doing things because they have always done them that way or not.
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