Sometimes in our society we often hear the stories of guys who impregnate ladies and later claim that they mistakenly or accidentally got them pregnant. When that happens some are forced to perform the marital rites to marry the lady. The question is should a guy be forced to marry a lady he have accidentally got pregnant?
Argument To Support That Guys Who Do That Should Be Forced To Marry The Lady
Firstly, you should understand that there is no accident in impregnating a woman. When the guy saw the lady, a lot of contraceptives were available for use, yet decided to go raw.
Once you've gotten her pregnant you should take responsibility, look after her and marry her. It's pathetic how some guys even run away and abandon the lady.
Argument Against Forcing Guys To Marry Ladies Because He Mistakenly Got Her Pregnant
In this view he may not necessarily marry her, but he must provide for the need of the woman and he must be caring and lovely to her.
Don't force a guy to marry her because;
1. It will cause the guy to lack some respect to the girl since the guys parents may be against her marrying the lady. It usually give birth to abusive marriages.
2. At times it looks like the person forcing is demonstrating some hatred because if you love someone you won't be forcing him/her to drink the cup of his or her mistake.
3. The girl will hardly have a voice in the family since the boy's family will always see at times as an outcast from her family.
4. The girl herself may not love the guy but might be forced to swallow the bitter pill of marrying him just because he got her pregnant.
I strongly advocate that guys must be responsible in their sexual life by the use of contraceptives. However when an unplanned or mistaken pregnancy sets in, parents shouldn't force the guy to marry the lady. He must rather be forced to take responsibility of catering for the girl.
If both the girl and guy agrees to marry, then so be it but no one should force marriage for them.
Content created and supplied by: Currentworldnews (via Opera News )
Opera News is a free to use platform and the views and opinions expressed herein are solely those of the author and do not represent, reflect or express the views of Opera News. Any/all written content and images displayed are provided by the blogger/author, appear herein as submitted by the blogger/author and are unedited by Opera News. Opera News does not consent to nor does it condone the posting of any content that violates the rights (including the copyrights) of any third party, nor content that may malign, inter alia, any religion, ethnic group, organization, gender, company, or individual. Opera News furthermore does not condone the use of our platform for the purposes encouraging/endorsing hate speech, violation of human rights and/or utterances of a defamatory nature. If the content contained herein violates any of your rights, including those of copyright, and/or violates any the above mentioned factors, you are requested to immediately notify us using via the following email address operanews-external(at)opera.com and/or report the article using the available reporting functionality built into our Platform See More