For many, trust is the key to a harmonious relationship. Frankness, acceptance and tolerance help develop it as lies, deceit and other betrayal erode it. And one of the most painful betrayals for a man is learning that his wife is cheating on him. Knowing that you have been cheated is a painful experience that you would like to do without.
However, the longer a deception lasts, the more likely it is to hurt you. Therefore, if you have any doubts about the fidelity of your wife, you should clear it up without delay. To help you out, we've made a list of signs that your wife is cheating on you. Be careful, however, not to come to a hasty conclusion. A single, or even several, signs does not automatically constitute irrefutable evidence of infidelity.
In any case, not without first having a frank conversation with your wife. On the other hand, it is true that the more you discover negative signals, the more you will have to be careful. And the fewer signs you discover, the more reassurance you can be.
There is nothing wrong with taking care of yourself. If your wife resumes her gym membership, good for her. If she feels more confident with a skirt and lipstick than with sneakers and a turtleneck, that's her right. On the other hand, if it suddenly goes from one extreme to the other, you are entitled to wonder what motivated this change.
Can you identify a reason for her weight loss? On weekends, or on vacation, does she pay so much attention to her appearance, or does she tend to let go? If she doesn't seem like she wants to impress you, or ask for your opinion, maybe she is trying to change for someone else.
1. Her phone is off limit for you
Few people would give full access to their phone to their partners. And for good reasons: today, we keep a part of our life there. Personal photos, intimate conversations and other things that we only share with our loved ones.
She always keeps it with her. Even if she takes a shower, the phone accompanies her. If she puts it on charge, it is with the screen facing down, just to hide the notifications. And don't even try to make excuses for her. Here, unfortunately, the reason is often disappointing: there's something about this phone that she doesn't want to show you
2. She keeps asking for space
A need for independence does not always mean that a wife is cheating on her husband.
Sometimes she just needs a little time to reconnect with herself. Find the person she was before you married. It's clean.
Other times, she needs to do things without her husband. To see other people, old friends. Or, she is thinking about leaving. There is still the possibility that she wants more independence to be able to spend time with a lover or a man who interests her.
3. She starts showing great interest in your schedule.
If your wife is cheating on you, she is going to want to spend time with the other person.
To make sure she doesn't get catch, she'll need to know where you are and therefore, where you aren't. If she asks you what you are doing several times in the same evening, or calls you to find out if you are at home, it may be that she is checking that the way is clear.
4. You find out she lied to you
If your wife is really cheating on you, it's rare that you find out straight away.
Instead, you're more likely to come across a lie here and there. An inconstancy in his stories, a bit by chance.
1. She tells you to be at the restaurant with Jacqueline. When you speak with the latter a few weeks later, she has no recollection of the restaurant in question.
2. She claims goes out for cycling every Saturday but the gloves you gave her for Christmas are like new in July.
3. She says she went shopping with Rose after yoga. Repeating herself later, she was with Juliet. And the stores were before yoga.
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