Sign in
Download Opera News App



Love relationship


Dating Romantic

How To Keep A Guy Interested In You And Have Him Hooked

Attracting a guy can be difficult, but retaining him is often more challenging. Once you have been dating, here is how to get a man interested in you.

1) How to make men interested? Be interested in yourself!

One of the best ways to keep your man sharp and interested is to be interested in what he likes. Men like women who show interest in their passions because it shows that they are interested in them. This shows your loyalty to him, and perhaps most importantly, it even allows you to spend more time together. Showing your man that you are willing to try new things for him will make him see you in a different light.

If he has many hobbies or interests, please choose the one you feel most comfortable trying. If you are afraid of the sea and he likes surfing, this is not ideal. However, it may be as simple as learning to sit down and watch the long and "boring" action trilogy that he likes to watch.

When you can do things together, there will be more opportunities to make connections. You will also earn more respect from him. He will also be more willing to try you, and he is more likely to continue to come back to you because he thinks you are interesting.

2) Show him what you do best.

It's not just about paying attention to his interests and talents-you also need to shine. You need to differentiate yourself from all the other women. If he is so successful, there will be a large number of women eager to date him.

If you are talented or you are particularly good at doing it, show it to him. It might create a storm in the kitchen like Martha Stewart. It can take the most stunning photos. Maybe it's basketball. Whatever it is, don't hide these things.

He wants his woman to be beautiful. He wants you to be the envy of other men (this is male self-esteem). He wants to see you have passion. Being passionate about something shows that you are very outgoing and that you are an interesting person-these two things will make him want to be with you more.


3) Don't take life too seriously.

Although being serious is sometimes a good thing, most men want a relaxed girlfriend. If you want to attract a man and keep him, then a sense of humour is a very important thing. You don't have to be the next Allen, but to make your man interested in you, laughter in a relationship is a key factor. If you can make him smile with your wit or dry humour, he will be fascinated.


When a couple laughs together, they can bond more closely together, and in the long run, they are more likely to stay. If he finds you interesting and feels comfortable in front of you, he will find that he wants to spend more time with you.

4) Become his pillar

Being his backbone is one of the most important characteristics a man looks for in a long-term romantic partner. Caring and nurturing are the two qualities he looks for in potential wives. If you have these and show them through your support, you are more likely to build a long-term relationship with him.

I am not suggesting that you play the role of a mother—no, not at all. But when he needs you, you need to be by his side—whether in good times or bad times. Celebrate his success. Give him praise and encouragement. Listen to his questions and provide advice when needed or needed. If you want him to be a frequent visitor in your life, you need to show him that you have always supported him.

5) Take care of yourself

When women try to attract men, they put in a lot of effort. Hair, clothes, nails... whatever you can think of, they can do it. However, once they got him, many of them stopped working hard. In their opinion, they have done all the work to get him to land, and now they can relax a little bit.


Well, we know that appearance is not everything. People who only pursue appearance are superficial and not worth dating. However, men want to know that you have worked hard to make them look good.


This does not mean that you have to wear a full makeup mask every time you are with him or prancing with stiletto heels (man hates this anyway), but you should try to look neat. In the minds of men, if you can't take care of yourself, you can't take care of them, which goes back to the idea that men want to be nurtured.

6) Own your own life

No one likes to be smothered. If you want him to be interested in you, then having your own life, friends and hobbies outside of the relationship are essential. Men don’t like clingy women, so it’s important to have a little independence.


Although spending time together is important to your relationship, being with him 24/7 will only lead to boredom and lack of interest. In addition, it is fun to go out alone with girls occasionally, and having your own life will give you both more topics.


Don't stop trying your relationship just because you got your man. Keep working. If you want them to succeed, interpersonal relationships require constant effort.


There must be more to say about how to get men interested.

Please share your tips with us in the comment section below! We would love to hear your success story!

Content created and supplied by: Sintim09 (via Opera News )


Load app to read more comments