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Couples, here are 7 habits killing your romance

Keeping Romance alive is a daily task. Once you get used to each other's companies and find your comfortable place in the relationship, you have to work hard at it. But there are some things you can end up doing that could kill you. We may not even know what we are doing to destroy relationships.

But it’s not hard enough to push your boundaries to make your partner feel special every day. All you need to do is give them an outlet and the support they need to keep going.

What is the strain on a relationship? We come to that. It is a habit that we do not even know we have that kills relationships faster than anything else. You will talk about seven areas in that practice.

1. Be addicted to your phone when you are together.

Of course, it is tempting to relax after a long day and browse through your social media accounts or remain attached to mobile games, but when your partner is waiting for you to be available to them and you are busy with the physical world, it shows disrespect.

If you and your partner leave the restaurant or just sit in bed and are connected to your phone, it sends a message to your colleagues that you are following it. 

This behavior, when repeated daily, kills the conversation and the love between the two of you.

2. Talking about work all the time will kill the romance.

We understand that one of the amazing things about being in a long-term relationship is that you can share your worries, for example.

But if you tend to bring your work stress home and keep talking about how much your boss is worried about you or how your co-workers are behaving behind your back, it will add stress to your relationship and kill the romance. So, instead of discussing work issues and with your partner all the time, focus on the current moment you are sharing. It is important to manage your work and your relationships with equal attention. Is dating in a relationship healthy? It is just as important as the relationship itself. So make sure you don't lose your love for work.


3. Maintaining your points.

He had dated that hot girl for five minutes at the party last year, and now he would not miss the opportunity to bring it back to her. This confidentiality is the absolute killer of the relationship.


Being in a relationship is not a game of wrestling. How to keep track of things! Remembering the little details of the times when your partner would have been flawless is useless. It is important to choose your battles wisely.

4. Arguing over small things can kill the romance.

Stop complaining about every little thing your partner has not done. For example, you don’t like wet towels in bed, but your partner often forgets about them after throwing them in there, or you would like your partner to clean the dishes before bed, but forget to do it many nights.


Arguing over small things can kill the romance. As a result, you get to fight them. Teasing is what you do to your partner, and this will kill the romance in your relationship. Now, we are not saying that fighting and arguing with your partner is unhealthy. It is the opposite.


But choosing your partner’s pet dogs sends a message to them that you don’t love them the way they are, and this leads to further conflict in the relationship.

5. Unrealistic expectations

In this turbulent period of communication, we are often filled with unreasonable expectations of a proper relationship. If your BFF partner surprised her by going on a hot balloon on Valentine's Day, or a neighbor couple going on a post-second break, it makes no sense to compare your relationship with theirs and argue about it.


It makes your partner feel like they are failing to please you. This will kill the romance in your relationship.

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