When we start a relationship, our minds are always flooded with a million questions. Is this going to work? Is he going to leave? Is he worth fighting for?
To help you answer some of those questions, we've compiled a list of items he does that show he's deserving of your affection.
He respects you and brings out the best qualities:
He respects your opinion and often seeks it out because he considers you as a peer. He notices more than your physical beauty; he notices the fire in your eyes and the incredible mind you possess. You seem to bring out the best in each other, and almost every conversation you have ends with new ideas sparked.
He thinks of you as he makes decisions and he realizes that there are two of you now, not just him. You're the first one he thinks about when he needs advice, whether it's about when to take vacation days or where to go for the holidays.
He remembers the smallest details:
He remembered you being allergic to banku, but you only told him once on the first date. He remembers to bring you a pizza after work because he knows you won't have had time to eat.
He expresses his love for you through small gestures such as chocolate during your period and yellow roses on rainy days to bring you a little bit of sunshine.
He's proud to have you around:
He walks taller when he's with you. He's proud to have you by his side, and not just because you're beautiful. He will brag about you to anyone who will listen—about your career, your accomplishments, and all the little things he finds gorgeous, including the way you laugh, the manner you play with pets wherever you see them, and the way you blush when he speaks about you.
He is completely in love with you and is not embarrassed to show it to the rest of the world.
You feel at ease in his presence.
You feel completely at ease in your pajamas and a messy bun because he still makes you feel like the most beautiful woman who ever lived.
You feel safe confronting your fears because you know he is by your side. Even when you are confronted with something extremely awkward, it appears to be nothing because of him.
He gives you his undivided attention.
He makes you feel like you're the only woman on the planet. He smiles and concentrates with all his attention on you all the moment you walk into a room, making you feel like Queen by herself.
It's just the way he looks at you and touches you that helps you feel this awesome, and that's which no one can fake; it appears to come only from true love.
He encourages you to pursue your passion.
He's a keeper if he respects who you were before meeting him and encourages you to pursue your dreams and career.
If he is eager to meet your friends and family and supports your relationships with them, he genuinely cares about you. Because seeing you happy makes him happy, he will be your biggest fan and cheerleader.
He is a lover as well as a provider.
You deserve someone who not only loves you but also meets your needs, whether they are financial, emotional, or psychological.
Some men may excel as lovers but fail miserably as providers. Other men may be excellent at providing whatever you require, but they are terrible at showing or making you feel loved.
If this gentleman not only makes you feel loved and unique but also meets your wants and needs as and when they arise, he is a two-in-one package that you must not overlook.
Kindly note this
If you love him but he does not do any of the things listed above, you have two choices:
Help him change or leave.
Also, he may have been doing more than we have listed; try and follow your heart's desires, and if you believe you are convinced of him, keep him. If you're still not convinced after he does all of the above and more, leave.
Your happiness should matter to you, but your conviction should make the decision for you.
Kindly comment if you have any suggestions or anything to add up. Thanks for reading
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