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Husband and wife relationship

CONFUSED: My Husband Did This To Our Daughters And Threatened Them Not To Tell Anyone.

This is a heartbreaking story of a woman that needs urgent attention and advice. She narrates her story as follows;

"I have been married for 12 years with 3 kids. Our first girl is 11 years, second girl is 7 years and third boy is 3 years. A month ago my first daughter started bleeding for weeks, initially I thought it was her first menstruation so I didn't really pay attention to it but made sure to guide her until just three days ago she confided in me and told me her father, my husband, had sex with her and that resulted in her bleeding.

But even prior to that, she said he had been fingering her for a couple of years now. The one that made me week is that, he even fingers our second daughter too and has warned them not to tell anyone else they will die.

But what in God's name will make my husband do that to our girls? I just couldn't control my emotions as at that moment I wanted to die but I waited patiently for my husband to return from work. I then confronted him only for him to start crying and pleading with me to forgive him and said it was the work of the devil.

I am so confused now because my daughters are devastated and I feel I have failed them if I don't take any action against their father.

I don't know whether to report to my family or the police. I'm just not myself, what do I do?"

This is the heart cry of a woman who has been heartbroken because of the wrong actions of her husband. Well, it might sound surprising but many other women are facing same problems in their marriages and even worse but has no one to talk to. What is happening to some of our men? Is it a psychological problem?

What advice will you give to this woman? Share your thoughts.

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