Opera News

Opera News App

4 ways to get over your ex

Cookhie
By Cookhie | self meida writer
Published 22 days ago - 29 views

True love they say doesn’t exist. What do you think? Before we go any further kindly hit the follow button to get updated anytime I post. 

In this article we will get to know how to get over an ex who is someone we once dated, loved and went to the extent of planning the future together. Life doesn’t come in a smooth road. Surely there would be bumps along the way but it’s up to you make a decision. Let’s now look at ways to get over your ex as follows;

Create a breakup mantra:

Did you know that mantra’s are so powerful without even realizing it? It brings out a unique definition of you making you stronger with confidence day by day. You can use the words “I am no longer interested in him.” “I am stronger than I know”. You need to have that connection with yourself more than ever. You’ll definitely be okay from here onwards.

Be at peace with the past:

No matter how painful your past is, you need to understand that it is time to let it go. Stop crying over spilt milk and move on. What needed to happen has already happened and it’s up to you to finally realize it. Never fret about the past and always focus on tomorrow where lies a brighter future ahead. The choice is yours. It all depends on you and no one else.

Create new boundaries:

Did you always go out on a Friday night just to have some fun? Did you always have a stroll at the beach every Sundays? What if your partner asks one of these? What would you do? You should have it in mind that it’s in the past and you don’t want to have confusions with the past and the future. He or she can’t pretend to be someone today and be another tomorrow. Set some boundaries and let them be aware that it’s too late for any reconciliation.

Let go of the fantasy:

To know that this task is difficult is very understandable. The memories you both shared; especially the secrets you two only knew, the occasions you both went together and many more. No one said it’s not okay to cry? Let all the tears out but most importantly know that it is all over. Leave the fantasies for another person and move on without turning back.

Maybe some of you still have the desire to still be with that ex and forget about what he or she did. You’ve tried all these and still no answer but one thing you should know is that if that ex has moved on you shouldn’t definitely do the same. Thanks for scrolling down.

Image credit: Mom Junction

Source: hellobreakup.com and Psychology Today.

Content created and supplied by: Cookhie (via Opera News )

Tags:      

Opera News is a free to use platform and the views and opinions expressed herein are solely those of the author and do not represent, reflect or express the views of Opera News. Any/all written content and images displayed are provided by the blogger/author, appear herein as submitted by the blogger/author and are unedited by Opera News. Opera News does not consent to nor does it condone the posting of any content that violates the rights (including the copyrights) of any third party, nor content that may malign, inter alia, any religion, ethnic group, organization, gender, company, or individual. Opera News furthermore does not condone the use of our platform for the purposes encouraging/endorsing hate speech, violation of human rights and/or utterances of a defamatory nature. If the content contained herein violates any of your rights, including those of copyright, and/or violates any the above mentioned factors, you are requested to immediately notify us using via the following email address operanews-external(at)opera.com and/or report the article using the available reporting functionality built into our Platform

YOU MAY LIKE

Meet Agya Koo And His Beautiful Wife

15 minutes ago

16 🔥

Meet Agya Koo And His Beautiful Wife

B/R: Covid-19 Vaccine Is Safe, GHS Must Intensify Its Campaign - Hon. Vincent Oppong Asamoah

1 hours ago

25 🔥

B/R: Covid-19 Vaccine Is Safe, GHS Must Intensify Its Campaign - Hon. Vincent Oppong Asamoah

Opinion: See reasons why Christians shouldn't take the Covid 19 vaccine

2 hours ago

86 🔥

Opinion: See reasons why Christians shouldn't take the Covid 19 vaccine

Finally: Prophet Opambour Reveals Secrets About Owusu Bempah.

2 hours ago

88 🔥

Finally: Prophet Opambour Reveals Secrets About Owusu Bempah.

Meet The World's Deadliest Sniper Of All Times Who Killed 505 Soldiers In Just 98 Days.

2 hours ago

42 🔥

Meet The World's Deadliest Sniper Of All Times Who Killed 505 Soldiers In Just 98 Days.

The vaccine doesn't cure covid-19, Nana can't force us to be vaccinated- Captain Smart reveals

5 hours ago

175 🔥

The vaccine doesn't cure covid-19, Nana can't force us to be vaccinated- Captain Smart reveals

Man City vs Wolves, players to watch tonight.

5 hours ago

5 🔥

Man City vs Wolves, players to watch tonight.

Reasons why Ghana won 2009 U20 world cup and assurance that Black satellites can win U20 Afcon 2021.

5 hours ago

199 🔥

Reasons why Ghana won 2009 U20 world cup and assurance that Black satellites can win U20 Afcon 2021.

Do You Remember Cirilo And Maria Joaquina From Carrossel? Here Are Recent Photos Of Them And More

7 hours ago

715 🔥

Do You Remember Cirilo And Maria Joaquina From Carrossel? Here Are Recent Photos Of Them And More

Stay Calm. NDC Sends Message To Their Supporters Ahead Of Supreme Court's Verdict

7 hours ago

217 🔥

Stay Calm. NDC Sends Message To Their Supporters Ahead Of Supreme Court's Verdict

COMMENTS