One of the most challenging decision to ever make in life is to choose a life partner. It is one thing to be in a relationship and another to be in marriage. It is very easy to be in a relationship than marriage. Due to this, a lot of marriages are failing especially when people get their heads in marriage before realizing they made the wrong choice.
It is not easy to choose someone who will completely understand you and love you unconditionally. If you are lucky to get the right person, then you are good to go. But how can you tell if she is the right person?
Here are some qualities that will tell whether she is the right person or not.
• Intellectually Challenging
If a woman is intellectually challenging, never let her go. Beauty is attractive but it fades. There should always be an intellectual mindset behind those looks. If a woman is able to dissect, reason and contribute to real life issues and discussions, never let her go. Such a woman will save you ten times more than a woman with just empty looks
• A woman with class
A woman with class has nothing to do with how expensive her wardrobe is. Class is all about dignity and the level of respect she has for others. A woman who has no class will leave you disappointed.
• A woman who is honest and genuine
Long lasting relationship cannot be built on lies. Every man needs a truthful woman to be their sides. How long can you stay committed to a beautiful liar? Life is full of uncertainties and there are times you may make a mistake. You need a genuine and honest person who will say it when you are wrong and help shape you onto the right track. Someone who will always tell you the truth and trust with every bit of commitment.
• A woman who compromises
Relationships are not always like sugar and milk. There are at times both of you will disagree on something and when that happens, it is only compromising that can restore the bond. A relationship will last longer when both are ready to make sacrifices for the safety of the relationship.
• Kind and a generous woman
According to Scientists, three things that enable a successful and long lasting relationship are kindness, understanding and generosity. In life, we always need someone who will be supportive and believe in us even when we don’t believe in ourselves. Also, there are times when you may go through certain difficulties and you will need your partner to understand and give you the encouragement you need from her. If you find such a woman, never and ever let her go.
• She’s consistent
Never leave a woman who is consistent. Consistent in the sense that, she never changes her personality. If a woman is not consistent with her personality, then she’s definitely going to change at certain times in the relationship. Such a woman may have a good personality in the relationship and then change as soon as you marry her.
• She accepts your flaws
A good woman will accept you no matter who you are. She will never criticize you but will help you build on your flaws. If she never tears you down due to your flaws, never let her go.
• She respects her parents
This is just simple and straight forward. A woman who respects her parents will definitely respect you. But a woman who does not respect you will always take you for granted.
• She moves past jealousy
Jealousy is natural in relationships but it is also something that brings about insecurities in relationships. A quality woman will always give you freedom to associate with others but you should never break her trust for you.
• She supports your goals
Never leave a woman who supports your goals and at the same time pursues her own. Such women do not depend on men for living. They support their partners in all means that they could and also pursue their own goals and always try to live independently.
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