You could feel it's time to pop the question (the girlfriend question, of course!) if you've found someone wonderful and you've been hanging out for a long. It's natural to be scared when considering asking someone to be your official girlfriend, so keep that in mind. You can get the inquiry out as painlessly as possible by planning a little and keeping certain suggestions in mind. You might just get a girlfriend if the moment is good and she likes you back!
1 Become acquainted with her.
If you're considering asking someone to be your girlfriend, you may already know a little something about them. Try to strike up a conversation with her and learn about her likes and dislikes, interests, and recreational activities. You can even throw in a little flirtation here and there if you're feeling brave (a casual hand touch or a compliment would work great here).
*You can talk to her one-on-one or in a group situation if that is more comfortable for you.
*You may already know a lot about her if you've been on a few dates with her, which is excellent!
2. Capture her at the appropriate time.
Choose a moment to speak when there aren't many distractions or people around to listen. Meet in a public park, walk around the block, or go to a small coffee shop for some one-on-one time.
You can store your question for later if the moment isn't suitable or you run into a gathering of people. If something doesn't feel right, don't be afraid to ask!
3 Have a light discussion with her.
Inquire about her day, tell her an amusing anecdote, or inquire about her activities. There's no need to rush, even if you deliberately wanted to hang out so you could ask her to be your girlfriend.
If you're stumped for words, compliments are a terrific place to start. "Your dress looks pretty beautiful today," or "I just love your giggle!" are two examples.
You can also make it lighthearted by asking, "How's work going?" "Have you been keeping cool in this hot weather?" or "Have you been keeping cool in this hot weather?"
4. Tell her you're in love with her and ask her to be your girlfriend.
Take the conversation to a more serious level when there's a lull in the chat. Tell her how much you like her and invite her to be your girlfriend. The most nerve-wracking phase is yet to come, but you can do it!
Consider something like, "So, after spending some time together, I'm starting to develop feelings for you. Is it possible for you to be my girlfriend?"
Alternatively, "I feel like I know you so well because we've been friends for so long. I think you're great, and I'd like to ask if you'd like to be my girlfriend."
5. No matter what she says, keep your cool.
It's time to rejoice if she says yes! You can joke, grin, and admit how frightened you were about approaching her. You can then guide the conversation in a different direction to continue with your evening.  Don't get worked up if she says no or that she's not ready for a relationship. Everyone's position is unique, and most of the time, it has little to do with you. You have the option of continuing to hang out with her or ending the night and returning home.
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