Splitting up is hard, but it's great to have your ex wanting you back. The process of making her like you again starts right after you break up. Everything you do can potentially hurt or help your case. By taking the time to analyze your relationship, work on yourself, and strategically communicate with her, you can win her back.
1.Try the no contact rule
Determine a set amount of time where you will no longer interact with your ex. This includes phone calls, text messages, social media, and in person meetings. You are not to initiate contact or respond to her at all. This will give both of you space to heal and work out your feelings. The no contact period is typically 21, 30, or 45 days. Whatever period you choose, you must stick to the plan. No contact will give both of you time to heal and also give your ex-girlfriend time to miss you. If the relationship ended badly, this period will allow both of you to cool off and work through any negative feelings.
2. Stop engaging with her on social media.
Even if you no longer talk to your ex, seeing pictures of her and knowing what she is doing will make you want to contact her. Constantly getting updates about her life through social media will make things more difficult for you. You also may find out information you do not want to know such as she is dating someone else. If you need to unfriend or block your ex-girlfriend on social media, then you should. You do not have to let your ex-girlfriend know that you are taking these steps.
3. Evaluate the relationship
Since you are no longer talking to your ex, you have time to think about the relationship. Consider the pros and cons of the relationship. Think about the things that you did well and things that you did not. Also, think of the things you can do differently if you get another chance with her. It may be helpful to write a pros and cons list down on a piece of paper. This will also help you think about the relationship.
4. Do not talk negatively about her after a breakup, it is tempting to badmouth your ex. You may say some things that you do not really mean. Saying bad things about her to your family, her friends, or your friends is not helpful. If your ex finds out what you have been saying about her, you may ruin your chances of getting back together with her. Do your best to keep the details of your relationship private. Refrain from posting about your relationship on social media as well. This includes, subliminal messages such as song lyrics, music videos, or quotes.
Thanks for reading through. Kindly follow my page for more interesting articles. Thanks
Content created and supplied by: Undergroundnewsgh (via Opera News )
Opera News is a free to use platform and the views and opinions expressed herein are solely those of the author and do not represent, reflect or express the views of Opera News. Any/all written content and images displayed are provided by the blogger/author, appear herein as submitted by the blogger/author and are unedited by Opera News. Opera News does not consent to nor does it condone the posting of any content that violates the rights (including the copyrights) of any third party, nor content that may malign, inter alia, any religion, ethnic group, organization, gender, company, or individual. Opera News furthermore does not condone the use of our platform for the purposes encouraging/endorsing hate speech, violation of human rights and/or utterances of a defamatory nature. If the content contained herein violates any of your rights, including those of copyright, and/or violates any the above mentioned factors, you are requested to immediately notify us using via the following email address operanews-external(at)opera.com and/or report the article using the available reporting functionality built into our Platform See More