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5 Signs You're More Attractive Than You Think

People tend to have a poor track record when it comes to self-assessment. Studies show that humans aren’t capable of realistically assessing themselves - especially when it comes to physical appearance and attractiveness. This is because we perceive ourselves differently from those around us.

We scrutinize every little detail about ourselves much closer than we would the actions or appearance of others. Therefore, the majority of people often underestimate their self-worth and appeal. Wondering what others think of you can be maddening, but there are a lot of clues you can learn to spot to figure it out. Below are 5 signs that you might be a lot more attractive than you think!


1. People Seem To Enjoy Talking To You

Do others always come up to you and start conversations - regardless of where you are or what you’re doing? If so, it’s probably because you’re easy on the eyes. It may not seem fair, but those deemed more attractive are treated better than those who are ‘average-looking’ - and they get more positive attention. Attractive people have a sort of pull that draws others in. It might not always be a romantic thing; it could just be because of how symmetrical your face is or how well put together you are. Simply put, we enjoy engaging with attractive individuals more than others.


2. Others Tend To Have Strong Feelings About You

When you’re attractive, people tend to display extreme feelings toward you - whether negative or positive. They can seem overly friendly; or extremely cold and harsh - for no reason at all. Whichever extreme they choose to act in, it will most likely be because they find you attractive and really want to get to know you, or they find you intimidating. Some will act petty toward you because they’re jealous of your appearance, and others will try to come up to you a lot and make excuses just to have a way to talk to you and be around you.


3. People Are Surprised By Your Insecurities

It might be pretty hard to believe that the people we admire or put on pedestals can be just as insecure as we are. Because of how amazing they appear, it’s easy to slip into the mindset that they have nothing to worry about. But the truth is, everyone struggles with low self-esteem - sometimes. This is probably why most people are surprised when you mention that there are certain aspects of your appearance that you’re not happy with or want to change. Any flaws you find seem minuscule to them; they probably don’t even notice whatever imperfection you spot in the mirror!


4. People May Act Differently Around You

Are people a lot more jumpy or anxious around you? Do you notice that they act differently around you than anyone else and seem nervous or confused when you approach them? Attractive individuals are usually very intimidating, and it’s almost impossible to stop yourself from getting flustered when you’re around someone you like or find attractive. If you notice others consistently acting strange around you, one of the reasons for this might be that they find you attractive and don’t know what to say or how to talk to you.


5. Others Tend To Have Strong Feelings About You

When you’re attractive, people tend to display extreme feelings toward you - whether negative or positive. They can seem overly friendly; or extremely cold and harsh - for no reason at all. Whichever extreme they choose to act in, it will most likely be because they find you attractive and really want to get to know you, or they find you intimidating. Some will act petty toward you because they’re jealous of your appearance, and others will try to come up to you a lot and make excuses just to have a way to talk to you and be around you.


And while being attractive can go a long way when it comes to dating, attractiveness isn’t just about your physical appearance - most people want more than just a pretty face. Learn to accept yourself, and be comfortable with who you are; look beyond your insecurities and unreliable perception of yourself - to see how much others value you. When you get past these self-imposed obstacles, you’ll probably find that you’re much more attractive than you think!


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