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Top Ten Secrets in Every Successful Marriage

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By simonaabugre | self meida writer
Published 14 days ago - 932 views

Recently, there are lots of broken homes and families. These are caused by several key factors which need much attention.

The article is purported to enlightening you on most of these factors.

Try and read carefully through this article. Read and study one point at a time and you would help build your family and home. Find the top ten secrets behind every successful marriage below;


Secret 1

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can not get the best out of his or her strength.


Secret 2

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to marry, stop digging into your partner's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.


Secret 3

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriages have gone through their own tests of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember that you vowed for better and for worst. In sickness and in health be there for your spouse.


Secret 4

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one's marriage. We can never be equal. Some will be far, others behind. 

To avoid marriage stress, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.


Secret 5

To get married is like going to a battle field.

Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance, 

Unforgiving heart, 

Third party influence, 

Stinginess,

Stubbornness, 

Lack of love, 

Rudeness,

Laziness, 

Disrespect,

Cheating etc.

You need to be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.


Secret 6

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Success in marriage is attain by hard work. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done, it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. 

Let us not be careless about our marriages. 


Secret 7

God can not give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw material in order for you to mold the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and patience.


Secret 8

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. A husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful. Otherwise, you might divorce.


Secret 9

Marriage is not a contract. It is a lifetime union. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.


Secret 10

Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

The end.

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