Some couples seem so strong that nothing could separate them. But how do these lovers manage to be so happy and so close, even after many years? Here are the elements that are the basis of an indestructible couple.
If they appeal to you at first, your partner's differences can irritate you and even become a source of conflict in the long run . The peculiarities of each are not always easy to accept. And yet, building a lasting relationship requires being able to show tolerance. Remember, these are the differences that attracted you to each other early in your relationship and that make your partner so special.
Loyalty, family, altruism and ambition. Sharing the same values makes it possible to have the same priorities in life. A person who wishes to devote his life to his career will always put the latter first in his decisions. So it will be easier to understand and accept this if you share this same value.
Mutual trust is the glue of a strong couple. But it is above all honesty that forges this trust. Don't be afraid to share your feelings with your partner or be vulnerable. If your relationship is healthy, you shouldn't be afraid of each other's reactions. It is essential to feel that we can confide in the other without being judged or criticized.
Happy marriages are founded on a deep friendship. Friendship in a couple means that you have a strong bond, common interests and esteem for each other. This is what allows you to listen to others and want only one thing: their happiness.
Communication is the basis of a healthy and strong relationship. It is important that the two partners manage to communicate and express their emotions, their needs, their desires, their disappointments ... Your partner cannot understand what is going on in you if you do not tell him or her. Learn to put words to your emotions, otherwise the other person may misinterpret your thoughts. Tell her what affects you, what makes you happy, what makes you sad, what makes you angry. Frank communication and attentive listening are the keys to a good balance in the relationship.
6. The Sexual Agreement
Not everyone gives the same importance to sexuality. However, a fulfilling sexuality remains an important point in a happy relationship. Frustration, poor self-esteem, feeling of insecurity. Problems encountered in bed can reflect differences within the couple. Here again, communication is fundamental.
7. Joint Projects
Having children, buying a house, getting married, going on vacation. A couple must be able to project themselves together. This is what will help to add stability to the relationship. It is important for a couple to move forward in life towards common projects. Your relationship is itself a project that you are carrying out together. Be careful, however, that everyone continues to have a life on their side.
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