Does your boyfriend ignore you and take you for granted? Do you feel more like a medalist than a real person? After the end of the post-marriage period, your boyfriend starts to take you for granted and you keep wondering how you can make him see your worth.
Every effort is one-sided and you immediately begin to feel that you are in a one-sided relationship. Your boyfriend does not value you and makes fun of you for no reason. She feels like a housewife who is a quarrelsome husband, mocking her for staying home and doing nothing. You stay calm, hoping that one day your boyfriend will be able to let you know what you are, but it will only get worse.
Everyone, both men and women pray for the best partner who will understand them and appreciate their values no matter how small they are. Men always look for women who have values because a valueless woman has no positive contribution to the marriage. But sometimes, a woman's value may not be appreciated, especially when it is not evident. Therefore, as a woman, if you are sure that you have value and your husband does not appreciate it, here are what you should do to make him appreciate it.
1. Keep busy
To make the boy realize your worth you need to take some steps. You do not need to be in constant contact with your boyfriend. Take your time and do things you've been procrastinating for a long time.
2. To make him realize your value, stop texting and calling him.
Make him see his mistake. Ignore his calls and texts. Do you call and text your boyfriend first? He never texted you first, even though you said you were responding? Do you keep asking her if she is okay and say "I love you" first, most of the time? If the answer is yes, you need to stop immediately.
Texting and calling your boyfriend first makes them feel that you are always available. Additionally, he will not feel the need to text you first because he will get used to the idea that his girlfriend is constantly calling and texting him.
If you want him to see your value, have him call you and text you instead. You can take this thing forward and ignore him enough to make him think he is lost. Then if he really cares, he will put forth an effort to benefit you.
3. Start by showing appreciation for the little things he has done.
One thing is for you to have certain lovely standards, another thing is to be informed, but more importantly to appreciate your husband’s values.
You have to learn to live a self-sacrificing life. You do not lower your husband's prices and expect him to value yours as well. This may not be the case, especially if your husband is jealous.
Please let your husband know your values. Identify his values and look for the best way to make him understand that you value his values in your life and your marriage.
4. Set a good example.
By setting a good example, we mean that you should do exactly what you want your husband to do. For example, if you want your husband to say "thank you", it is important that you always say that to him so that he will learn from you.
Do not conclude that you are old enough to know how to convey that information. Not everyone knows how to express gratitude, but that doesn't mean those who aren't thankful don't appreciate it. Just lead her and your husband will follow in your footsteps.
5. Expect the best from him.
We usually get something when we have your trust, so, don’t turn your face away from appreciation. It is expected that when he finally does, he will not push you away with anger.
6. Be respectful to him.
You should not respect your husband because he does not value your worth. As you keep your hope alive, continue to honour your husband. On the best day, you may be surprised to find that he has been seeing your values but decided to keep them low. Don’t be too aggressive and quick to disrespect your husband because you think he doesn’t see your value. You can make him see and appreciate you by showing him respect.
7. Have self-respect.
Charity, they say you start at home. If you don't respect yourself, no one will know your value. No matter how important your value is, a single atom of disrespect is enough to get you out. Therefore, you need to be self-respecting before seeking some kind of information.
9. Request your respect from him
You can let him know by telling you politely. Your husband may be overwhelmed by the many things he may not have the time and resources you have. Therefore, if your husband is such a busy man, you can drag him to see your value and let him know by simply telling him politely.
10. Do more.
It is equally worthwhile to let you know about anything you do, no matter how small, but you need to do more sometimes to be informed. Kindly do most of what you have been doing, or switch to something else in case you do something wrong.
11. Let yourself know how important you are to your husband.
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