Four months before our wedding, I married a man who was paralyzed. I never considered Martin to be disabled. I was so overcome by love that I agreed to marry him. My family tried to persuade me to reverse my decision, but I refused. In his wheelchair, he proposed to me. Because he was mine and I adored him, I learned a lot about living with his condition and making his life as enjoyable as possible for him.
He began walking again six years into the marriage. The problem is that because we don't have children, my stress hormones have never been elevated to the point where I'm concerned. I know that children are a gift from God, so I wasn't going to let anything interfere with my ovulation and fertility.
Doctors confirmed that we were both healthy and could have children.
9 years with no children. Martin, my husband, told me he was going to Accra, and the next thing I see on my sister-in-status law's is a naming ceremony for my husband's baby with another woman. After denying it on the phone, he finally admitted to me that he needed to have a child. I didn't sleep at home that day; instead, I went to a friend's house to sleep.
Because I was so hurt and heartbroken by what had happened. Because I never expected the man I love to do such a thing to me. What bothers me the most is that his mother called and told me to leave the marriage if I couldn't deal with what had happened.The next day, I returned home to find my husband with the baby mother at our marital home.
So I asked what she was doing at our house, and he said she came last night and he wanted to talk to me, but I didn't sleep at home. That means she'll be staying with us for the foreseeable future.
I became enraged once more and demanded that he choose between me and her baby mother because I couldn't leave the house with her. But he replied that he couldn't do that because he couldn't leave the baby mother, so I should try to deal with her staying with us in the house, which I insisted I wouldn't, so I'm leaving him. But he pleaded with me not to leave because he adored me.
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