Once you have being with your partner for a minute. It can sometimes feel like you have talk everything. You have told your stories, you have shared your dreams and you have muttered a few words about what you did like to eat for dinner. Now you feel like you literally have nothing creative to say. This moment can be a turning point in a long term relationship with your partner.
1.Get into a healthy debate: if it feels like your conversation have sareeched to a halt, try stirring up a healthy debate. Find a provocative quatation and discuss with him or her. If you both agreed, cool. But if you don't, it will quickly turn into some fun banter. And who knows? you might even learn something new about each other.
2. Make plans for the future: When was the last time you check on each other about the future? If it's been a minute, talk about what you'd like to do in the future or next years. Like where to travel or what to do, where you want to have fun.
3. Talk about the past: On the flip side, the past is also on untapped source for good stories. So while you have likely covered the basic, try to delve deeper by sharing childhood secret or telling old family stories. You may learn new things you never knew about your partner, like favorite game to play, favorite place to visit etc.
4. Sharing random thoughts: In the same vein, consider sharing random thoughts and memories, even if they don't seem conversation worthy.
5. Ask about their day. This is a conversation you can have every single day. So if you aren't already in the habit, consider sharing your highs and lows after you have spent time apart. How was work?, What went on?, or how are things going? etc. You need to ask all these things to make the relationship healthy.
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