Many guys are faced with the problem of approaching ladies let alone voice out nice words towards them. The drama which comes with such instances is that sometimes, the ladies are really interested in reaching out to the guys and do expect these guys to approach them so they give a positive response. Communication has been a key element which has cost many guys the chance to get the perfect relationships.
A successful dialogue arises with the girl whom the man wants to get close to or engage in a meaningful conversation with as a result of a sound method and a distinctive, frank and tactful manner. This is done by following the following steps to start the dialogue. I am sure you are asking yourself what the steps to start the dialogues are. Well, they can be found below;
1. Start talking informally
A man can approach a lady in a polite manner and smile at her while greeting her, and then introduce himself gently, and he can ask her simple questions in a spontaneous and tactful manner at the beginning of the meeting. Addressing questions that express interest politely in subsequent times, such as asking her how was her day, or how she feels about something is very needful.
This gives the girl the impression that you are really interested in her and would do everything to make her happy when she gets to accept you. You must exchange conversations with her, making sure you make the discussion very lively and never boring. A boring conversation drives ladies away.
There is nothing wrong with asking about studies or work as well because this helps to break down the barriers that makes it difficult to talk at the beginning, in addition to the possibility of discussing a project with her if you work in the same field or in the same workplace.
2. Breaking down barriers in a friendly and calm manner.
You as a young man should try to remove the barriers and obstacles that makes it difficult to talk to the girl you want to get close to, through your efforts to win her admiration and gain her satisfaction while you focus on getting to know her. For example, you should ask her some nice questions that girls care about, such as asking her about her interests, or her favorite color, her favorite pet and others.
You can also ask her about some unexpected things without disturbing her with the intention of attracting her attention and making her smile. You can also ask her about her ambition and goals in the near future, you should admire her and wish her success. This is some kind of conversation and questions which can be a good start to getting to know each other.
3. Go deeper into the conversation and introduce the girl to yourself more.
After you get to know the girl well, delve into her personality and ask her questions in a pleasant way that does not make her feel that you are interrogating her. You can go personal with her and can also use body language to bring the distance closer and show friendly interest in her such as eye contact while talking at this stage.
4. Praise the girl
When the two parties reach the stage of friendship, and the girl notices that she is interested in you and that she understands you very well, you can praise her spontaneously and gently to win her love and admiration and bring the distance between you very close, such as flirting with her innocent smile and telling her how beautiful she is, talking about how nice her necklace is and others. These compliments will make her feel that she is special to you.
Tips when starting a conversation with a girl
When starting a conversation with any girl, there are several guidelines that are recommended to be followed, the most important of which are the following:
1. Using a sense of humor and wit to make the girl want to talk to you for a long time and not feel disturbed or bored, by drawing a smile on her face and making her laugh with spontaneity and kindness.
2. Avoid criticizing the girl in the first stage of acquaintance, such as commenting on her clothes or appearance, and so on; because this may make her alienate you and not want to continue talking to you.
3. Try to understand the spontaneous body language signals that comes out of the girl, respond to them and express through body language gently as well.
4. Avoid talking to the girl in an uncomfortable place that might make her feel confused, frightened, or trapped, and choose the right time and place to start a nice conversation with her.
Following these steps is likely to earn you a chance to get the trust of the woman you have always feared to approach.
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