Getting your crush’s attention can be difficult. You want them to notice you, but you don’t want to risk getting embarrassed if you come on too strong. If you want to make your crush more interested in you, then you may want to try making them jealous.
Talk to other potential dates. When your crush is around, chat with their potential rivals, including their friends. Keep the conversation casual so that the person you’re flirting with doesn’t actually ask you out. Say something like, “How was your weekend?” or “I have so much homework to do this weekend, but I can’t miss my friend’s party.” Make sure that you don’t throw yourself at others. If you get asked out by your crush’s friend, then you may become off-limits to your crush because of friend loyalty.
Laugh and giggle at the other person’s jokes. It doesn’t matter if you think something is funny, laughing is a key part of flirting. It also shows your crush that you have a good sense of humor and are fun to be around.
Use body language. Your crush will pick up on flirty body language, even if it’s directed at other people. While you don’t want to go overboard, doing a little bit of flirting with body language will be enough to make your crush green with envy. It will work best if you aim your flirty vibes at a group rather than a specific individual because that way no one will think you’re coming onto them. Smile or pucker your lips. Get closer to the other person. Playfully touch their arm. Keep your arms down to your side or gesturing; don’t cross them or fidget.
Play with your hair. Twirling your hair or sweeping it over your shoulder is a timeless flirting technique. As a bonus, playing with your hair will stir the scent of your shampoo and your pheromones.Wrap pieces of hair around your finger. If your hair is up, take it down and shake it out. You can always put it back up again if you need it out of your face.
Wear your favorite outfit. When you know that you’re going to be around your crush, choose clothes that make you feel your best and reflect your identity. In addition to looking your best, you’ll convey more confidence because when you feel you look good you project those positive thoughts to the world. Show off your best features. Pick an outfit that expresses something about you. For example, you could wear something studded to show that you’re edgy, or something flowy to show your girly side.
Tell them you have plans. Even if you aren’t busy, make it seem like you are. You want your crush to think that everyone is wanting a piece of your time because they will be jealous that you aren’t spending that time with them. If you don’t talk directly to your crush, announce your plans to the group. Say, “I’m happy I got to come out with you guys today because the rest of my weekend is packed. I’ve got a party tomorrow night, and then I’m going to the beach on Sunday.”
Don’t text them when you’re out. You can’t show them attention when you’re with others or focused on doing something awesome. While you may be tempted to text a pic or comment to show how cool and busy you are, it’s better to wait until you’ve gotten home to share. If you get a text from your crush while you’re out, wait to answer it, even if they ask what you’re doing. If you keep them wondering, they’re more likely to get jealous of those who are getting your attention.
Post on social media. Use your social media accounts like Snapchat, Instagram, and Facebook to show off your amazing life. You can accomplish this by only posting your finest moments. If you’re feeling down, call a friend instead of posting about it. When your crush checks out your stories, you want your life to look fabulous. Even if you’re spending time alone, make it look like you’re really busy doing amazing stuff. Post pics with friends and family. Choose moments when you’re out doing something rather than posting selfies.
Send mixed signals. Mixed signals are a classic tool for making someone jealous because they keep the person guessing. While it’s a little mean, sending mixed signals will allow you to get someone’s attention while still avoiding embarrassment because whether or not you’re into them will be unclear. Turn the conversation to serious topics after a flirty exchange. After you talk to them for a bit at a social event, focus all of your attention on someone else for awhile. After texting them a lot, take a break. Wait a day or two before answering their last text.
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