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Not about big butts: Ladies, be more attractive to men by doing these simple things

A lot of Ladies assume that being attractive is all about physical appearance, but studies show that your personality is even more important than how you look when it comes to how attractive you are. If you want to be more attractive to men, letting your best personality traits shine is a good place to start. That doesn’t mean your appearance has nothing to do with it though. Evidence shows that men find certain physical qualities more attractive than others, and there are things you can do to highlight your best features so you’re catching more guys’ attention.

Below are things that can make you more attractive to men


1. Be confident. For many people, being confident is easier said than done. Being confident means feeling secure in who you are and what your abilities are. If you're not already confident, there are ways to build your self esteem. As an example, if you struggle with negative self talk (those voices in your head that tell you you’re a loser, worthless, stupid etc.), work on countering that with positive affirmations such as “I am thoughtful” or “I am a good friend”. When you're confident, you don’t beat yourself up for making mistakes, and you don’t talk down to yourself. Confident people are able to celebrate the success of others without feeling jealous or bad about themselves.

2. Be an active listener. If you’re talking to a guy you like (or anybody, for that matter), a surefire way to get them to like you (at the very least, as a friend) is to actively listen to them. Active listening involves the following steps: Don’t interrupt or judge the person who is talking. Nod your head or give short verbal signs (“yes”, “mm hmm”) that show you acknowledge what the person is saying. Paraphrase what they’ve said so that they know you’ve understood. Ask questions to signal you’ve paid attention and are interested.


3. Be honest but respectful. Resist the urge to tell a guy what he wants to hear instead of what you really think. Just be sure to be respectful while you’re voicing your opinion. There’s no need to insult him or his ideas. You want him to like you for who you are, not for who you think he wants you to be. He might even appreciate that you have your own ideas and the courage to voice them. For example, if a guy asks what you think of a movie you didn't like, say what you really think instead of pretending you liked it just because you think he liked it. If nothing else, it'll lead to an interesting conversation.


4. Share your passions and interests. When people talk about their passions, it's like they come more fully alive. Their excitement can be infectious, making them exciting and fun to be around. When you're talking to a guy you're interested in, don't be afraid to reveal a little about what's important to you. Don’t forget to ask questions about his interests, too. This will show him that you’re interested in getting to know him better, and could help him feel closer to you.


5. Do things that enrich your life. Volunteer for a cause you believe in; learn a musical instrument; take dance classes; train for a marathon; or join a recreational sports team. Being happy and fulfilled will make you more attractive to men. In addition, having hobbies will give you more to talk about and more opportunities to bond with your crush, if he shares any of your interests. You might even meet someone through your hobbies.


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